How do you feel about
shedding tears yourself? Is it easy for you to cry? Is it hard? Are you
comfortable crying in front of others? Do you judge yourself or others for
doing so? I think it's interesting and important for us to ask ourselves these
questions and notice our relationship to tears.
Many of us have a
great deal of fear, resistance and judgment about tears -- both ours and those
of
other people. While this tends to vary based on our age, culture, gender and
the environment in which we find ourselves, I'm amazed at how often crying is
seen in such a negative way in our culture, even today.
Many people look upon
tears as a sign of emotional weakness. But, what they fail to realize is that
crying is a form of stress buster for the body. Crying helps you to get rid of
all you’re pent up emotions, be it frustration or joy. Not only this crying has
many other health benefits as well.
Even
though we may resist, fear, and avoid crying -- at work, with friends or family,
with members of the opposite sex, with our children or with anyone else, we
worry it wouldn't be "appropriate" to cry in front of, there are some
real positive benefits to shedding tears. Such as:
Improves Eyesight:
Tears can help to improve
your eyesight. Many a times, due to dehydrated membranes of your eyes, you may
find your eyesight to be a little blurry. When you cry, your tears hydrate your
membrane and help to improve your overall vision.
Cleans
your eyes:
Like other parts of the
body, bacteria can be found in your eyes, too. But, your tears have natural
antibacterial properties. Tears contain a fluid called lisozom, which can kill
around 90 to 95 per cent bacteria in the eyes, within five minutes.
Stress
relief:
When
you are upset and stressed, you have an imbalance and build-up of chemicals in
the body and crying helps to reduce that. It
is said that a person who cries during stressful situations, has lower levels
of depression. Emotional tears also release hormones likes adrenocorticotropic
and leucine encephalin, which relieve your body of its stress.
Get rid
of toxins:
In a research, it was found
that normal tears contain 98 per cent water, but emotional tears contain stress
hormones, which are released by your body to relax you. These tears contain a
number of toxins, which are built-up in the body due to emotional pressure. Tears
could actually be a way of flushing negative chemicals out of the body and
doing us a world of good physically. In addition to removing toxic substances
from our body, crying can also have the psychological benefit of lifting our
mood and helping us to deal with painful situations.
Protection
against irritants:
Have you wondered why your
eyes water when you cut onions? It is because onion contains certain enzymes,
which irritate your eyes. Similarly, when dust particles enter your eyes, they
start watering. This type of crying simply protects your eyes and ensures that
the particles are washed out along with the tears.
Cry for
your overall health:
Tears released due to
emotional reasons contain 24 per cent of higher albumin protein, which helps to
regulate the body’s metabolic system. Crying also helps to fight diseases such
as high blood pressure, obesity and diabetes, which are caused due to high
stress levels.
To feel
comforted:
Though you may be undergoing a lot
of difficulties, crying gives you a feeling of relief. After you shed tears,
your brain, heart and limbic system starts functioning optimally and you feel
very comforted.
When we cry we open up, let down our guard,
and connect with others in a more real and vulnerable way -- Many times in my
own personal life I've seen tears dramatically shift a person's perspective,
change the dynamic of an argument and bring people together in a genuine way.
Tears have a way of breaking down emotional walls and mental barriers we put up
within ourselves and towards others. Crying tends to be some kind of human
equalizer, because no matter the circumstance, situation, or stress we may
face, our tears have a way of shifting and altering things in a beautiful, vulnerable
and humbling way.
There's nothing wrong with our tears, even if we get a
little embarrassed, uncomfortable or even pained when they show up. As we allow
them to flow through us, we not only release toxins from our body, stress from
our system, and thoughts from our mind -- we tap into one of the most basic and
unifying experiences of being human. Crying is powerful and important -- let's
have the courage to do it with pride and support each other in the healthy
expression of our tears.
So, next time
when your heart feels heavy or your eyes start to water up, don’t think of it
as a sign of weakness. With so many benefits attached to it, shedding a tear
won't be that bad an idea.
I'm glad to read this. I'm a crier and I don't like people to see it (I get all blotchy and snotty, it's unattractive)but those close to me are used to it and we joke about it. I express most strong emotions with tears and typically feel better after. I'm usually a happy person so I think crying keeps me sane. It is a way to release pent up emotions I may not be able to verbalize.
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